A buch of people suffers from social anxiety... But thats not the thing what I wanted to talk about.
Our class (more or less) got really together during this year. We had to cooperate in this Kádi competiton, and after that we went out to have fun together, and till our journey to Sopron, we finally acted like a class. We became a community, we already planned a lot of programe for summer and so. Like, next week my classmate invited me to a party in town. I've never been in such place... but I accepted it and I haven't regretted it yet. I'm not just hoping that it ll be fun, I WILL make sure that it will be fun :) . This is like a new lifestyle. Even though I thought so far , that I don't have time for this stuff, it requiers too much energy. Yes it does! But this part of the year, and this part of my life will totally worth it!
You might think that school is useless, if it comes to friendships, cuz there are gangs and enemies. Oh hell yeah there are abunch of them! But thats called life, it teaches you to deal with these kind of people and situations, and sooner or later you ll find yourself in a gang too. You have to choose well, because in this age these friendships can stay with you after graduation, and they can change or determine your life! Sometimes the school provides you an opportunity to find your place in your community (like ours with this Kádi thing), sometimes you have to find that opportunity, but remember, that it's always there!
My way of thinking changed during the years. Experience is the key, Carpediem is a way of thinking (not always but sometimes usefull) and after you reached a certain age, when you have some free will, some controll of your own life, grab it and make changes if necessarry.
I know, not everybody born to be socially active, neither did I! But one point in my life I pushed myself into one conversation... only one! And it was the beggining of everything! And then an other and so on, and I got to know a lot of people, some of them are still my friends, or classmates,. But the main thing is that I'm not invisible! Even more, I'm here, I have a place somewhere, I belong somewhere, and it makes me feel good about myself. I got self confidence which helps me to push myself further, out of my comfort zone to those boundariesm, that I weren't able to pass 5-4 years ago.
I bravely talk to strangers, ask questions if I don't know something, let others help me and offer my help. We depend on each other, that why there are soo many of us exist!
There is no advice, I can't advice anything. I also can't write any conclusion, cause' even I can't find it... It's just a good experience, and I thought why not share this with you :) maybe it's gonna be usefull for someone. I wish you the best!
Our class (more or less) got really together during this year. We had to cooperate in this Kádi competiton, and after that we went out to have fun together, and till our journey to Sopron, we finally acted like a class. We became a community, we already planned a lot of programe for summer and so. Like, next week my classmate invited me to a party in town. I've never been in such place... but I accepted it and I haven't regretted it yet. I'm not just hoping that it ll be fun, I WILL make sure that it will be fun :) . This is like a new lifestyle. Even though I thought so far , that I don't have time for this stuff, it requiers too much energy. Yes it does! But this part of the year, and this part of my life will totally worth it!
You might think that school is useless, if it comes to friendships, cuz there are gangs and enemies. Oh hell yeah there are abunch of them! But thats called life, it teaches you to deal with these kind of people and situations, and sooner or later you ll find yourself in a gang too. You have to choose well, because in this age these friendships can stay with you after graduation, and they can change or determine your life! Sometimes the school provides you an opportunity to find your place in your community (like ours with this Kádi thing), sometimes you have to find that opportunity, but remember, that it's always there!
My way of thinking changed during the years. Experience is the key, Carpediem is a way of thinking (not always but sometimes usefull) and after you reached a certain age, when you have some free will, some controll of your own life, grab it and make changes if necessarry.
I know, not everybody born to be socially active, neither did I! But one point in my life I pushed myself into one conversation... only one! And it was the beggining of everything! And then an other and so on, and I got to know a lot of people, some of them are still my friends, or classmates,. But the main thing is that I'm not invisible! Even more, I'm here, I have a place somewhere, I belong somewhere, and it makes me feel good about myself. I got self confidence which helps me to push myself further, out of my comfort zone to those boundariesm, that I weren't able to pass 5-4 years ago.
I bravely talk to strangers, ask questions if I don't know something, let others help me and offer my help. We depend on each other, that why there are soo many of us exist!
There is no advice, I can't advice anything. I also can't write any conclusion, cause' even I can't find it... It's just a good experience, and I thought why not share this with you :) maybe it's gonna be usefull for someone. I wish you the best!
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